Hi I had a gay sex with a masseur yesterday. He fucks a lot people before and I do not know whether he carries the virus. He oral me for 20s without condom and I did an anal sex with him with a condom ( I am insertive). I am vey worried right now. I have a little wound on my hand which was non-bleeding but looks quite red. I am afraid what if that guy's saliva or sweat contact it and thus I got infected. Looking forward to your reply....!!

Hi there,

I went to a massage parlor like 13 days ago and received full body massages with a "happy ending" handjob at the end. It is an unprotected handjob plus some massages oil that the CSW give.. Now 2 days ago, i start to have some sort of neck stiff which maybe due to the swollen lymph nodes and i can't stop relating this to HIV symptoms which i had research on Internet. Can this be sign of HIV ? ( Since i don't know hat the CSW status on her HIV and other STD's). Also what is the fastest time to take an HIV test after possible exposure to relieved my anxiety?

Thank You

Vince

Hello,

I'm 36 year old male living last 10 years in Germany.

I had two sexual contacts with two different sex workers last week. One on May 01 and another on May 03. With first one, I've used condom for oral and vaginal sex and I had licked her clitoris for 20s. We just kissed each other on body but not on mouth. After sex, when I had asked her about her status, she told me she HIV- and has regular check every six months. Second girl is from Latvia and living in Germany for last two year. We had deep kissing session. I did not taste any blood from her mouth. She sat on bottom end of my penis for few seconds with her vagina. Afterwards, she licked my penis without condom. Within 2 seconds, I asked her to put condom. Then I also licked her clitoris without entering my tongue into her vagina. I didn't see any blood from vagina. I have a light aberration on my front teeth gum. But there is no bleeding from it.. Later we had vaginal sex with condom. There was no breakage on condom as semen was fully inside. I am unaware of her HIV or other STD status. Next day, I had burning sensation on my penis. There was slight clear discharge only one time in the morning. Two days later, I had very mild fever and mild throat infection. Same day, one of my family member also had sever throat infection and high fever.I went to urologist on May 08 and waiting for the results of STD evaluation which I will have it on May 13.My fever disappeared ater two days. But still I have throat pain and bit body pain.

I had unprotected oral sex and protected vaginal sex last year and had minor STD infection. STD was treated in January. Also I had tested my HIV status by Rapid test in January after 5 weeks of sexual contact which was negative. Then health advisor advised me not take confirmation test since there was no risk associated.

I am worried of HIV transmission. What is your opinon on the risk status? Do I need to take HIV test? If yes, how do I know my HIV status as soon as possible?

Thanks in advance for your quick response.

Here is an answer below you wrote me..........So my questions are, I do not know if the women was breast feeding or not, and, being I was tested 1 yr and 10 days, and 1 year and 8 months past this situation by POC in Canada Rapid tests, are my non reactive results from these test 100% accurate and non reactive? The rest is what you answered to my question earlier about sucking a womens boob.  I have no idea if she was feeding or not.  So I got tested.  Please be detailed in your answer?

Sucking a breast poses absolutely no risk of acquiring HIV. it is true that there may be virus in breast milk. However, Woman secreats breast milk only when she is breast feeding. In addition to that, there has never ever been a reported case of HIV infection in adult through consuming breast milk.

There is no need for you to be tested from the activity you had. Your test result is conclusive for the activities you have engaged 3 months prior to the test.