Sunday, February 10, 2013
Question:

 

I had a unprotected oral sex with a a guy i met online last september and i was the recipient. After 10 weeks, i went for a oral quick saliva test for HIV and the result was negative. But recently for the past few weeks, i have been experiencing weird symptoms which i never had before. My whole body was itching with prick and needles feeling in it(intensity increases and decreases sometimes none at all), i had a sore throat which lasted for a month,i also experienced headaches, backaches, joint pain and lots of anxiety attacks from thinking about the incident. I am also under a lot of stress by the way regarding this matter. I'm so worried that the result is not accurate at all and i'm still waiting for the second confirmation test in march. I'm feeling so guilty and anxious all of the time. What should i do for now? Hope to get some advices. Thanks a lot.

 





Sunday, February 10, 2013
Question:

 

Please help me coz i'm so anxious now. I am currently working here in the middle east. This is what happened to me. A guy from here forced me to do fellacio to him. He ejaculated in my mouth. I spitted everything. I don't have sores or visible cut in my mouth. But, about 40 minutes after the incident, I brushed my teeth. That happened December 27, 2012. Around January 10 - 12, 2013 (I'm not sure when it started), i started to have low grade fever, then loss of appetite, nausea, mild fatigue and slightly inflamed lymph nodes on my neck. It lasted for about 2 weeks. I did't have sore throat. Then everything went ok. it's just that until now i feel hot inside my body and my eyes feels hot too making it a bit red and still having this inflamed nodes. However, when i check my temperature per axilla it's always from 35.6 - 36.6 degrees celcius and 36.4 to 36.7 degrees C orally. I can not go home to my country (Asia) until June 2013. I can't go to the hospital here because i'm too afraid that they might deport me which actually is adding to my anxiety. I am aware that the best thing to do is to be tested but i can only do so in June when i go home. I read your post regarding the low risk associated to oral sex, but I'm also aware that it is still a risk. i had my HIV testing last september, october and november, 2012. The incident that happened to me is the only exposure I have since the last time I had my hiv test. 1.) What are my chances of getting HIV through my exposure? 2.) Is it too late for me to take the HIV test on June? 3.) If this is acute HIV infection, how long will I experience these symptoms? 4.) What can i do about my "feeling hot inside my body and in my eyes but have normal body temperature via axilla? 5.) Can this be Hep. B Virus infection considering my exposure and the appearance of my signs and symptoms? I'm very sorry for this long message but your reply will be a big help in decreasing my anxiety. Thank you so much and more power!

 





Saturday, February 9, 2013
Question:

 

Please, I need your help. I am extremely worried, I fell like my world colapsed.
I did something stupid. I went to visit a transvestite sex worker. We did only condom protected oral both ways. I know that some may say that there is no risk of HIV from condom protected oral, but I am scared and many "what if?" questions are now in my head. Given the fact that this cathegory of sex workers are high risky I can't stop thinking that I might have distroied my life. I am married and do not want to expose my wife to what I might have gotten form this experience. I am so stupid.
My questions are - do I need testing? Can I have sex with my wife? Do condoms really work?(there are a lot of stories on the internet - like the virus can pass through condoms).

 





Thursday, February 7, 2013
Question:

Hi i want to start of by saying that im a gay male and i did wrong of hooking up with a stranger i had unprotected oral sex with this person meaning that i was giving it. I got tested one month after and it came out negative should i still be freaking out or am i ok.... I also got tested for other stds im just waiting for the results. Is oral sex a really risky activity when it comes to hiv?





Wednesday, February 6, 2013
Question:

Hi,

3 months ago I received unprotected oral from a female sex worker and I had a protected vaginal sex.

I did an ELISA 3rd generation Test at 8 weeks - Negative
a MEIA ab/ag Test at 12 weeks and 13 weeks - Negative

all these tests where performed outside of the US.

I would like to know how accurate is the MEIA test is it like the ELISA 4th generation? should I retest or consider my self on the safe side? can it be false Negative?





Monday, February 4, 2013
Question:

Hi, 

I've went for a HIV rapid test after 7 weeks of exposure and it came out negative? 1) Will my result change ? I don't have symptoms from 7 to the 10 weeks. At the 11 weeks, I've a diarrhea and a one day fever. I went to the doctor and the doctor said that it was stomach flu. But i'm so paranoid that it's hiv. 2) Will hiv acute fever go off in a day or two? 3) Can diarrhea and fever be the only symptoms if i'm encountering ARS? 3) Will ARS happen after 10 weeks? 4) Will kissing and receiving oral sex give me a risk of hiv? 


Thank you!





Saturday, February 2, 2013
Question:

 

Hi, 
 
Does oral sex give you the risk of having HIV?  
 
I've encountered receiving oral sex 2-3 weeks with this unknown HIV person. 
 
I'm having a diarrhea on 30 Jan ( Wed) and then a fever on the day itself. However the fever subsided on the next day. 
 
1) Is this an ARS symptoms?
2) Will acute HIV fever subside on the next day?
3) I only encounter this two symptoms and it make me worried. 
 
 
Thanks.
 




Wednesday, January 30, 2013
Question:

Received unprotected oral sex, on day 24 after exposure had a duo test (Australia) came back negative. Is that a clear indication of my status? What are the chances of it converting to positive after 12 weeks?





Wednesday, January 30, 2013
Question:

 

Hello,

On 1/18/13 I top a trans person, protected anal and unprotected oral giving and receiving maybe 2 minutes of oral and 10 minutes anal. during the intercourse they told me that they felt a break so I pulled out immediately, I don't think it was long in duration with a rip but I never had a broken condom before so not sure what to make of this.The condom did not fully break, the condom was still on my penis and on my penis head, after moving the condom around on the tip of my penis I noticed a rip that was about half an inch, there was no visible blood so I ran to the bathroom and run water tru it and it ran right tru it, my great concern is that my uretha could have been exposed so my questions are as follow:

1. What are the chances that my uretha been exposed and HIV enters it tru the rip?

2. Can the rip on the condom stay the same size after prolong anal sex without busting all the way? Do you think this particular exposure is small in duration since the condom did not fully break since I never had a condom break?

3. How risky was this exposure?

4. Has anyone tested positive with similar situation?

5. I did an Antibody test a week after and negative, I know this is not conclusive. Would you recommend a PCR RNA test? I am planning on doing it on 1/30/13 which is 12 days after potential exposure.

6. What are my chances of catching HIV?

 

Thank you





Friday, January 25, 2013
Question:

I received a blow job from a trans person and I do not know their STI status.
There is no visible cuts or sores on my penis.
I do not know that if the person has bleeding gums or not.
I did this stupid thing first time in my life and now I am extremely tense.
Please give a quick reply. Should I go for HIV test or I am ok?





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