Saturday, June 15, 2013
Question:
Hi, 
 
I had a girlfriend previously and we had sex for only ONCE, and then somehow later on we broke up. However, actually although we got together, I don't know if she has got HIV or other STD. During the intercourse, I used a condom but I didn't notice that there was a little bit of air trapped in the condom. So, when I ejaculated, the semen was spread through my entire penis (IN THE CONDOM). But as far as I know, the condom DID NOT have any breakage because after the sex when I removed the condom, the semen was still 'kept' inside the condom and was not leaking out. 
So my question is , should I be worried about HIV or other STD transmission , as well as Pregnancy ? I am NOT very experienced at sex so I'm not really too sure about how is Condom Breakage like, I guess it should be quite OBVIOUS and VISIBLE right ? 
 
Sorry for troubling you guys and Thank You so much for the help. 
 




Thursday, June 13, 2013
Question:

I had unprotected sex with a lady whose not my wife, a few days later i discovered i had Chlamedia the clinician said it was Gonorrea. I demanded for an HIV test together with the sexual partner, results showed i was negative while she tested positive. Pls explain am i at risk of having it? How do i tel my wife. #lesonslearnt.





Wednesday, June 12, 2013
Question:

Sir,i had encounter with a girl two nights ago and we only engage in foreplay by fingering her and rubbing my pennis against her thigh and her vagina but we are both we boxers on.shortly i later use the hand which i used to finger her to reach for a condom and use my teeth to make a slit in the condom wrap because i proved difficult to cut open but the girl refused to have sex when she notice my plans and the night passed out without sex.when i woke up the next morning,i was feeling a sharp pain deep in the left part of my pelvis and belly as well as aching in my left leg accompanied with a faint itching sensation throughout the whole length of my urethra and am cofused what could be happening to me.pls am i at a risk of exposure to hiv infection and what can i use to get well from these symptoms am having.....

Sir inrespect to the my above narration i am not sure i could have rubbed my eyes,nostrils with my finger or probably i could have peeled the pimples on my face with my fingers within that period.pls am i at any risk?

Further more i have met with my doc.he place me on cipro 500mg which i have been using for over 4day but it doesnt appears there is improvement.pls what can i do.





Wednesday, June 12, 2013
Question:

I had sex with this guy, unprotected, but there was no penetration. His penis did not penetrate my vagina as I did not feel it enter. After sex, I realised his seminal fluids are all over my vagina area and my vagina was with white fluids. maybe also seminal fluids at the vagina inner lips (labia minora) area. If there was no penetration, will I be at risk for HIV? I do not know his status, whether he got any HIV or not.

Please help me cause i panicing and worrying very much. I am scared.





Wednesday, June 12, 2013
Question:

Hello,

My name is Victor and I am 34 years old .On Oct, 2008 I had a failed sexual episode however it causes a lot of stress and trauma even today.Please bear with me as I mention the details.

I took the services of a massage parlor madam.We started by kissing each other , then the lady went to shower room where I washed her genitals.The foreplay started where I was on top however I didn't have a full erection to penetrate her , at this stage I was not wearing a condom.At the most by penis may have brushed her genitals unprotected.

The lady then told me wear a condom and I did .This was my first sexual activity hence I could not get an erection at all.Despite of numerous efforts I couldn't penetrate her . I then fingered her for about 30 seconds during which a white creamy discharge came out on my fingers which I wiped immediately.

Post this she rubbed my penis and helped me masturbate , my penis at this stage was not covered with a condom.

To summarize :-

1)I washed her genitals

2)My penis (uncovered) brushed her genitals 3)I fingered her and came in contact with her white creamy discharge 4)She rubbed my penis(uncovered) with her hands.

5)There was no sexual intercourse despite of numerous attempts , penis (Covered).

I am married man now living a normal life , however this episode still causes a lot of anxiety and doubt.

Do I need to get tested ?

Much obliged.





Wednesday, June 5, 2013
Question:

I had a one night stand with a girl of unknown status, 3 days after i got a herpes outbreak and was diagnosed with herpes type 1 in the genital area. went for a blood test for all STDs after 2 weeks came back negative for everything. After 4 weeks i was diagnosed with some bacteria infection below they sayed Gomorra or Chlamydia at the std clinic and gave me antibiotics for both and it cleared whatever it was up after 1 week. After 8 weeks i went back for a fourth generation HIV test and it came back Negative. What are my chances of dodging the bullet ?

Also one more problem ... I started dating another girl ( not a 1 night stand ) we dated for about 1 month and then hooked up in bed. We did not use protection i didn't mind because i knew her and i know she is HIV negative because she is a blood donor and there is no way she can donate with HIV+ blood right ?. Anyways i went down on her and she did the same after 1 week i got oral thrush ... i broke it off right away haven't spoken to her since.  Its been about 1 month now and i still have a coating on my tongue and red flat blister looking things on the back. It hurts to swallow and seems its getting worse, it looked like it was getting better but tonight its bothering me again.

Few more symptoms

Just 2 nights ago i woke up at midnight because i was freezing, i knew it wasn't cold in the house thou.. i got up and was shaking so badly it hurt it went away within 10 minutes ive never had this before.

my first encounter with that girl was in January ( new years ) and we are now June so it was 6 months ago what can i do  so its been about 5 months i haven't gone back for any testing after the 8 week mark, I've called the nurse many times and got reassured that the fourth generation HIV test is about 99% accurate after 8 weeks ? and that i should move on ? im just scared never have i been so stupid... any ideas about this oral thrush ? i know it can be an HIV sigh this is why Aim scared. Thanks 





Tuesday, June 4, 2013
Question:

Sorry, I'm a virgin and am very ignorant in this area.  I appreciate your help....

At the end of March this year I let a guy rub the head of his penis on my clitoris.  There was no penetration or condoms used.  From what I've read on this site, I should get STI testing, right?  Are these blood tests/swabs? Is there a time frame to wait to get tested or should testing have been done right away?

Thanks for your help





Sunday, June 2, 2013
Question:
This incident happened at a public toilet. It was kinda dirty with some brown-reddish marks. i used toilet paper, dampen it to make it wet to wipe of some brown- reddish like stains and it came off easily. I have no idea what these marks are.
 
After which, it was really very stupid of me. I forgot to dispose off the tissue that I used to clean the stains. I used that SAME tissue to wipe my vagina while standing up. 
 
If those BrOwn-reddish marks are HIV positive blood, will I be at any risk for any STDs or HIV? Please help me! 




Tuesday, May 28, 2013
Question:

Hi,
I am a male 24 years old..I had uprotected vaginal sex..Had Elisa HIV tests at 52,96,170 days post (possibly) exposure and all came back negative but i still have swollen lymph nodes located at my neck since the incident..I am very worried and i wanna know:
1)Should I trust those tests?(all 3 of them were Elisa 3rd gen)
2)Is it possible that I am infected and my body hasn't produced detectable antibodies?
3)Can swollen lymph nodes due to HIV make an antibody test come back negative?
Help me please...(excuse my english for mistakes)





Monday, May 27, 2013
Question:

hello , I am a 25 year old man , I didn't marry and don't have a girlfriend and I'm not a sexually active person , my only exposure is related to some incident 7 months ago as I Was far from my family , I went to a massage parlor for 4 times on Sundays , and in all 4 times I didn't use a condom , during the massage I was naked and was Lying face down so my penis was contracting with a towel which was on the table , and at the end massage she performed a hand job and I enjoyed it , ( stupid act I will never do it again ) and without any vaginal or oral sex and intercorse .

It was my ONLY sex activity during my life .

but On day as I was talking with some of my close friend about massage club , she asked me about the health license ! and I Understand that club hasn't health license and I be so worry since then , my last massage and handjob is 7 months ago and one month ago (6 months after last incident ) I decided to go and got a HIV test and it was negative , but I didn't test for other STI , according what I provided above , and considering that I am not a sexually active person , do I need further test for HIV or any other STI ?

and is there any STI it could transmit from massage and handjob ?

thank you very much , and so sorry because of my long question and poor English .

 

 





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